the finalwell, to the short, I sold the shock and replaced it with a Risse Racing.
in a tad of detail...
The Rock Shox monarch is just too stiff for me. Setting up the sag to my weight and such at 15-20% made for a shock that basically was useless. To get any real movement out of the thing I had to drop the sag to 30%ish. This caused the shock to bottom out pretty much all the time, there was just no in between

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there were a few good things about it, one it never leaked, popped, or gave me any mechanical issues.
the gate worked very well, I could set it up to have a little 1" bob but if I hit something hard enough it would pop the gate and go full squish again.
I do believe someone weighing much less than me (say 150lbs or less) would find this shock fine if not down right great. the issue I believe was that the higher pressures I needed to support my 180+ weight made the shock stiff. someone lighter wiould need less pressure, there for get a better/smoother movement.... just a theory though.
final rating... 2 out of 5 whatevers